A Glimpse of the Seawall at Night

Saturday we discovered ourselves “kid-free” and so we cruised down Bluewater Highway to grab some dinner at Benno’s on the Seawall.  As usual, I took my camera … the darkness of the evening didn’t permit much in the way of photo ops, but I was pretty pleased with the following:

Classic tourist “trap” with lots of cool surf tees, cheesy little ships in plastic bottles and seashells painted with “Galveston, Texas” on the outside and “Made in Japan” stickers on the bottom …

Wish I’d been better able to capture this one … in the daylight you’re able to see that it’s on piers over the beach and the waves come up underneath it …

I LOVE this shot.  There are two of these gigantic shells, one on each side, at the top of the steps leading up to Murdoch’s.  I am not sure if I just never noticed, or if it’s a recent “upgrade,” but they’ve rigged them with these lights that glow somewhat eerily at night.  Why does the movie music from “Jaws” keep running through my mind????

Before, After, and Extra …

Here is a photo I took of the gorgeous orange leaves on the tree in my neighbor’s yard on January 7 …
(yes, I know it’s not autumn, but we’re in Texas and seasons don’t follow reason …):







Here is the same tree after the nasty weather that blew through here yesterday …







And here’s an extra photo … the bit of blue trying valiantly to show through the grey, grey clouds of today …
kind of like joy trying to shine through the reality of my day.

Still Alive …

Sorry I’ve been MIA lately.  I keep hoping for something brilliant to post here, but I’ve been on a roller coaster of ups and downs these last couple of weeks.  The tree still hasn’t been taken down, and there are actually still gifts under it.  For various reasons, we have not yet had “Christmas” with my mom, sister, niece and nephew yet.  We were supposed to celebrate on Christmas Eve.  My mother, who is terminally unorganized, was not “ready” to have us come and so postponed it to December 26th.  Then her washing machine went out and she wanted to postpone until she got that fixed … then a part had to be ordered … we were supposed to “have Christmas” this coming Sunday afternoon, but she found out today that the part won’t be here until Thursday, and even if the repair guy comes on Friday, she has too much to do to be ready by Sunday.

Let me clarify by saying, she is vision impaired and cannot drive to a laundromat.  I would offer to take her clothes and such to a laundromat, except she is also OCD and would have a very difficult time letting me do that.  She has had my sister pick up a few things to wash over at her apartment, but my sister cannot do it all because she works two jobs (36 hours as an antepartum nurse every weekend and 25 hours every week doing billing and coding for a chiropractor) …

With regard to my mom … it is difficult to help someone who fights you every step of the way because they refuse to relinquish any kind of control …

At some point in the next few days, I will take the tree down.  I’m not sure what’s going to happen as far as the gift exchange thing goes … it’s getting a wee bit frustrating.

Business-wise, the year is starting off pretty well … I’ve gotten two blind orders and one shutter order since the first of the year and I have an appointment this coming Friday to measure some windows for another potential client.  Yesterday afternoon was a bit painful (I shared some of this in an online chat with Miss O’Hara) … it’s a long story, but the gist of it was:

I didn’t specifically communicate to a client that I would come by their house towards the end of their shutter installation appointment to pick up their final payment.  The contract they agreed to states very clearly that the “Balance Is Due at Installation” … it’s pretty obviously implied that I will be picking up the payment, I think.

My installer got there about 20 minutes early and so he finished about 30 minutes sooner than expected.  I had a little family crisis that delayed me and so I called my client to say I was just around the corner.  It was 3:58.  (The install was set for between 3 and 4 pm.)  The husband said, “Can’t you pick it up tomorrow?” and I explained that I really needed to go ahead and get it and I was only a few minutes from his house.  He barked out, “Fine!” and hung up on me.  I pulled up in their driveway at 4:02.  Literally 4 minutes after talking to him.  They were standing in the driveway with extremely pissy looks on their faces (no other word describes it so well) … I hopped out of my truck with a smile on my face saying, “thank you …” at which point they cut me off and she proceeded to tell me how UNPROFESSIONAL I was for not calling them to tell them specifically that I would be coming by.

I was totally shocked.  I’ve been doing this for 8 years and many of my clients have become my friends because that’s the type of service I provide … not to brag or anything, but I take very good care of my clients and they are not shy about saying how much they enjoy working with  me.  A large percentage of my business comes from referrals because people like my window treatments and my service so much.  So I was totally dismayed by this attack …

When I tried to explain that the installer had finished much more quickly than expected (I fully expected to arrive as he was finishing the job — our usual habit, where I check things over, make sure the client is satisfied and then collect the payment …) and that I’d received an emergency call from my mother, the wife cut me off and said, “I don’t care about your mother …”

!!!

Just so you’ll know … my mother received a cornea transplant about three years ago.  It is critical that she put anti-rejection drops in her eye every day to prevent organ rejection.  My mother called me right about the time I was supposed to go to the client’s house because my sister had come home from work with 102 degree temperature and was not able to go pick up the prescription and there was really no one else to do so … so I was needed to drive 40 miles (one way) to take care of this, as well as pick up a few things for my ailing sister.  This is what I was attempting to tell the woman when she told me she didn’t “care about my mother …”

Anyway … I discovered from a business associate who also worked with these people that they were very difficult to deal with and that because he owns his own business and has more money than courtesy, he thinks he can treat everyone like he treats his employees.

In a convoluted way, it made me feel a good bit better to learn this … to know that he is just a jerk, that his wife follows his lead, and that I didn’t really do anything “wrong.”  I think part of the reason it was so shocking is because all my previous contacts with the wife were very pleasant.  And SHE was the one who kept berating me about not calling them.  I think he probably was irritable about having to wait 3 minutes for me (they were standing in the driveway about to hop in their vehicle when I pulled up … )and so she put on a show of putting me in my place to stay on his good side.  The thing that really bums me out is not getting to see the finished job … she said they were very pleased with the shutters, just not with me.  I would have liked to have seen them, as they were stained Rosewood and I’m sure quite lovely.

I ended up mailing a thank you note for the order and apologized for any inconvenience my miscommunication may have caused them.  Sigh.  Then this evening when I went to Wal-mart, I almost ran into her as she was coming from one of the aisles!  I saw the nose of the cart as I was walking toward the checkout, said “Excuse me” as I looked up and it was her.  She was already smiling, but I’m sure that disappeared when she realized who I was.  I didn’t slow down to find out … I just kept on going. 

The rest of the week promises to be better, though.  After Jami and I do our schoolwork in the morning, I am going to go take some portrait shots for a young lady graduating from college this spring.  She is one of our homeschool family kids and is finishing up at Pensacola Christian College.  She studied graphic design and is doing a student show this spring … she has to have a portrait to hang with her work and asked me if I would take some shots of her before she goes back on Saturday.  So that was very, very  nice.  Pray for good weather and a good variety of poses for her to choose from.  And steady hands (no camera shake!) 

Well, I’d better wrap it up for now, but I figured I’d better post … especially after that last comment from John!    Have a good one and I’ll try to be more consistent in my posting.

***You Should Have a Blue Christmas Tree***


For you, the holidays represent a time of calm, understanding, and peace.
You avoid family fights, and you don’t get too stressed out – even when things are crazy!

You like to make Christmas about making everyone’s life a little bit better.
You don’t get caught up in greed or commercialism. You’re too sincere for that.

Your blue tree would look great with: Lots of silver tinsel

You should spend Christmas Eve watching: It’s a Wonderful Life

What you should bake for Santa: Chocolate chip cookies


What Color Christmas Tree Should You Have?
http://www.blogthings.com/whatcolorchristmastreeshouldyouhavequiz/

Well — I have to say — this is what I would LIKE to have … but part of the reason I’ve been scarce is so much to do, so little time, and so many people pulling me in different directions …. Stressed is my middle name right now.  😦

But this is pretty “on target” in that blue is my favorite color,
I love silver,
“It’s a Wonderful Life” is one of my favorite movies, and
chocolate chip cookies are probably the most perfect cookie there is.  LOL


Tomorrow morning I’ll be wrapping gifts and then my girl and I will be making the roughly 40 minute drive over to the deer lease that Surfer Boy is on.  We’ll be spending the afternoon at the deer camp, just hanging out and relaxing.  I’m in rebellion — all the “to do’s” on my desk are getting put on hold until after the 25th, because like Rhett Butler, “frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn.”

See you later!

I had to run some business errands earlier this afternoon, but Jami and AJ stopped by to see Mrs. Dannhaus. AJ made sure that she knew he and Gordon (our neighbor on the other side) were here if she needs anything. And she will. She and her husband had just moved to a new home about five minutes from their house next door to us. The new place is about three acres on the river … and will require mowing with his tractor. The “old” place next door to us is about nine acres. They have had it for sale for a good while, and until there’s a buyer, it will need to be maintained as well. Mr. Dannhaus was a tough old Marine, but he had a good heart and was a good neighbor. He and Mrs. Dannhaus celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary not terribly long after we bought our house in 2000. He was in his late 70’s, she a few years younger. I know she’s going to miss him terribly.

When you’re saying your prayers … please remember Mrs. Dannhaus. Thanks …

New Orleans

We went to visit my dad and his girlfriend in New Orleans this past weekend.  This was a difficult trip for me … my parents divorced about six years ago and my sister and I are still dealing with a lot of issues as a result of that.  Whoever says “wait until the kids are grown” doesn’t know what they’re talking about.  The only difference is adult kids don’t worry about their security when their parents divorce. 

The fact remains, my father is getting older (he’ll be 72 in February), and who knows how much longer anyone will be around?  So we went to visit.  On Saturday we went to the Audubon Zoo … that was interesting and Jami enjoyed it greatly.  I’m not a big zoo person … so five hours was a plenty long time to walk around looking at a bunch of smelly animals.  LOL  Seriously, it’s nice to do every once in a while, but not as an all-day event.  Saturday evening, his girlfriend made shrimp creole for dinner and Sunday morning we went to Cafe Du Monde, across from Jackson Square in the French Quarter, for coffee and beignets.  Cafe Du Monde has been serving coffee and beignets 24 hours a day, year round since 1862 … although I expect they closed during the major storms, especially Katrina …. (more text below the photos ….)



The scene across the street from Cafe Du Monde …



An Irish girl in her Greek hat, waiting for her French donuts …



Coffee with chicory, hot milk … and French Beignets … can’t wait for the sugar and caffeine jitters to start …  LOL

After breakfast, we hit the road for the 6+ hour drive home.  With a lunch and dinner stop, it took us about 8 hours to get home.  We were really tired, but when I listened to the messages on the machine, I was so glad we went to see my dad.  Our next-door neighbor, a retired Marine, was found dead next to his pickup truck Saturday morning.  He’d apparently had a heart attack.  He was only a few years older than my dad.  So in spite of our “issues” I was glad that I’d finally made the trip over.

One concern that I was not able to broach with my dad over the weekend was his salvation … he is not a Christian, although he believes that he is.  And because of different things that happened in his marriage to my mom (the Bible thumper),  this is not something that I am able to talk to him about.  He gets extremely angry.  I keep praying that the Lord will send someone across his path that he will listen to.  It was difficult to explain to Jami that my father has heard the Gospel, knows the truth, and chooses to reject it rather than relinquish control over to God.  It disturbed her greatly, but I encouraged her to pray for him (and his girlfriend) …

Your prayers would be appreciated, too … his name is Jimmy and his girlfriend’s name is Adrienne (nickname: “Lamb”) …

And the winners are:

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Student Photo Competition – 3rd Place

Jami

I can’t believe our Chihuahua allowed herself to be dressed up like this.  Good doggie . . .

 

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“Cookies ‘N Cream” — Colored Pencil drawing of an Appaloosa Circus Horse

Student Art Competition – 2nd Place

Jami

 

 

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“Birdhouse” — Home Depot Kids’ Workshop Project

Student Crafts Competition – 1st Place

Jami  

 

 

Mommy got a little recognition, too (and thanks her sister for signing a release allowing this photo to be publically displayed)!

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“She Ain’t Goofy, She’s My Mom!”

Amateur Photography, B&W Division – 3rd Place

 

Laura 

Frustration!  I wrote the most interesting little blog the other day about our fun-filled weekend . . . and then *blip* — the internet ate it!  Let me see if I can recreate my story:

Last Saturday we went to Galveston for the Greek Festival.  This is an annual event for us.  It all began when my husband was a kid . . . his family went every year, and so when we married, we began going each year.  It is so much fun.  There are dancers in traditional Greek costume, wonderful music, delicious food.  This year, my mom-in-law, Jami, and I went down to watch a little of the entertainment and pick up some dinner plates to take back to the house.  AJ’s dad had foot surgery a couple of weeks ago and since he’s still limited in how much trekking about he can do, AJ visited with him while we were gone.

The Assumption Greek Orthodox Church is the host of this annual event.  The Olympian Dancers are incredible, performing traditional Greek dances for the festival-goers.   HPIM1359 Years ago, a gentleman named Vasili Papavasiliou would do his famous “Table Dance,” where he would literally pick a square table up with his teeth!  The last year that we saw him do it, he first picked up the table, then he set a chair upon the table and picked that up!  It was amazing.  We think his dentist may have told him to stop, because he seems to have retired.HPIM1358

The music is awesome, although the last couple of years they have set up some gianormous speakers, and it’s really almost too loud.  We had difficulty hearing each other talk at one point, and that’s not good.  Perhaps I should write a letter???

The main reason we go, however, is the FOOD.  Oh, my.  We always get the dinner plate . . . full of good stuff.  For $10, you get generous servings of Pastitsio, Tiropita, Spanakopita, Keftedes, Dolmades, Salata, and Bread.  If those things seem a little “foreign” to you, souvlaki (marinated beef skewered with onions and green pepper and grilled to perfection) is also available.  Now if you’re not too full by now, you can visit the dessert table for some delicious confection made by one of the ladies of the church.  The classic Baklava, yummy Kourambiedes, Melomacarona, Koulourakia, or Karidopita.  Those Greeks know their sweets, for sure.  Us girls went ahead and ate our lunches and then took plates back to the guys.  I think they enjoyed them, as there was little conversation and lots of contented munching. 

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When they finished, AJ took me over to Ohana’s to see the Bob Martin surfboard he would like to buy. The boards were cool, but the thing that really caught my attention was the tile “welcome mat.”  AJ is going to see what he can come up with for our side entry into the house.  What do you think?

While I would love to get this beauty for him for Christmas, (1) it’s not a surfboard, it’s art and (2) it costs $1200.  Ouch!  Seriously, it is a 10-year-old gorgeous wood veneer board, and it has never been in the water.  I think the original owner hung it on the wall or something.  For that price, I sure would hate to see something happen to it.  

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There was a very nice Robert August board there, too.  It was a much more reasonable $800 (!)  In all truth, not a bad price for a nice board (so I’ve been told).  Hey, I dream about $1,000 cameras, so I suppose I can’t say much.

A few days later we made it to the county fair.  I am pleased to say that we did not go home “ribbon-less.”  I received a 3rd place ribbon for that hysterically goofy picture of my sister and her son (see previous blog entry) and my girl received THREE ribbons — a 3rd place for her “Sweetie, Princess of the Caribbean” photograph (how the child got that snotty Chihuahua to let her dress her up is beyond me!), a 2nd place for her colored pencil sketch of an Appaloosa, and a 1st place ribbon for the birdhouse she built at the Home Depot Kids Workshop.  All around, I’d say it was a very nice year at the fair.  I will post pictures of her winning entries sometime tomorrow.

Aloha!