My “ABC’s”

Hadn’t seen one of these in a while and thought I’d share my version of it:


 


A- Age – 41


B- Book you are reading right now:  Chihuahuas for Dummies 


C- Crush: My husband, of course! 


D- Dad’s name: Jimmy


E- Easiest person to talk to: My husband


F- Favorite ice cream: Anything made by Blue Bell, but more specifically Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough and Rocky Road 


G- Gummy worms or gummy bears: Gummy Bears


H- Hometown: Alvin, Texas


I- Iced or warm drinks:  Iced tea, ice in my Diet Coke, lots of ice 


J- Junior high: Alvin Jr. High


K- KIDS: Jami – almost 10


L- Longest car ride ever: Seattle, Washington to Houston Texas — 9 days


M- Mom’s name: Norma Jean


N- Nicknames: LaLa


O- One wish: Financial freedom


P- Phobia[s]: The thought of going off a bridge over water in a car terrifies me . . .


Q- Quote from you: “I’ve got to get more organized . . . “


R- Reason to smile:  My family 


S- Song you sang last:  I can’t remember for certain, but I’m sure it was one of Jimmy Buffett’s . . . we’re all parrotheads here.


T- Time you woke up today: 10:00 a.m. (My guy let me sleep in because I’ve been doing the Thanksgiving thang for the last three days — cooking, cleaning, etc.)


U- Unknown fact about me:  I’m pretty much an open book, so I can’t really think of anything.


V- Vegetable[s] you hate: Brussel sprouts


W- Worst habit: Mismanaging my time and frequently running late, following by mismanaging my money and frequently running short . . .


X- X-rays you’ve had: neck, spine, foot, head, and teeth


Y Years since you’ve been to church?  0


Z- Zodiac sign: Don’t believe in the Zodiac, but I was born January 27, so I guess it would be Aquarius (which is kind of funny because I do love the water, in spite of that bridge/water/car phobia thing).

Another One of the Reasons Why We Homeschool


I just received an email update containing the following commentary from Kathleen Parker.  I’ve been so busy the last few days that I’ve not had time to watch news or read a paper (who am I kidding — even if I had time, I doubt I would do this . . . if what was printed was even close to accurate, it’s too depressing to inflict upon myself).  This truly shocked me and made me want to go off the grid yet again.  It angers me that we’re the ones who conceive and give birth to our children, are responsible for their financial upkeep and welfare, hoping to grow children who love us as we love them and are good, decent members of our society and YET the state would be so, so . . .  ARGH!  I can’t even think of a word right now to describe how despicable this action is without blushing . . .  Read on, and protect your children the best you can from those who think they know better than you. 


Parents take another hit in the culture wars


Kathleen Parker


COMMENTARY


November 6, 2005


Parents increasingly at war against a culture they find aggressively sexualized just lost another battle. This time against the local school board. 


In a recent ruling, a three-judge panel of the 9th Circuit Court of Appeals (that be the Left Coast) determined that parents do not have a fundamental right to control when, where and how their children are taught about sex.


Rather the state — in its far greater wisdom about what’s right and wrong — has ultimate power over your kids.


This is not a new battle, of course. Parents and school boards have argued for years about sex education. But this decision is especially offensive because the children involved are so young.


The ruling stems from a case filed by a group of Palmdale, Calif., parents whose elementary school children were given a questionnaire of dubious content. In their complaint, the parents said they would not have allowed their children to participate in the survey had they known of the sexual nature of some of the questions.


Kids ages 7 through 10 were asked, for example, to rate the following activities according to how often they experienced the thought or emotion:


“Touching my private parts too much.”


“Thinking about having sex.”


“Thinking about touching other people’s private parts.”


“Thinking about sex when I don’t want to.”


“Washing myself because I feel dirty on the inside.”


“Not trusting people because they might want sex.”


“Getting scared or upset when I think about sex.”


“Having sex feelings in my body.”


“Can’t stop thinking about sex.”


“Getting upset when people talk about sex.”


Obviously, not every 7-year-old is ready to contemplate those kinds of questions. If you’re a parent, there’s no contest as to who should determine when such subjects are raised. Parents should.


Not so fast, and not according to the 9th Circuit.  The court made clear that it was not passing judgment on the appropriateness of the questions themselves, but only on the constitutional questions raised in the case. Herewith, plaintiff’s evidence as to why the law is, indeed, an ass and why what is “legal” is not always right.


Chief among the parents’ arguments was that they were deprived of their fundamental right to “control the upbringing of their children by introducing them to matters of and relating to sex in accordance with their personal and religious values and beliefs.”


Sounds reasonable to any attentive parent. Who else should decide when a child learns about something so intimately bound to moral values? Apparently, the state should.


Even though the Supreme Court has ruled that parents have a constitutional right to make decisions about the care, custody and control of their children, the judges in this case ruled that parents do not have an “exclusive” right.


(Not to worry. Those hot flashes you’re feeling are perfectly normal. Anger is an appropriate emotion under the circumstances, even if it’s not constitutionally protected.)


In other words, the state can determine what’s appropriate for your children based on what the state decides is good for society. Given that we’re all concerned about sexual abuse and domestic violence, we should be permitted to ask children questions that might shed light on such problems, right? So goes the thinking.


But as parents know, children are notoriously unreliable little scamps when it comes to answering questions honestly — especially questions they’re not emotionally or intellectually equipped to understand.


The most chilling piece of the ruling was this assertion: “We further hold that a psychological survey is a reasonable state action pursuant to legitimate educational as well as health and welfare interests of the state.”


Really. So now the state is in the business of psychoanalysis. Never mind that posing phase-inappropriate questions to children might create psychological complications that didn’t exist before the helpful questionnaire was administered.


While legal experts argue about whether the ruling is constitutionally correct, common sense tells us that the superior right of parents to instruct their children about sex is among the most fundamental of parenting concerns.


The idea that the state knows best is not only ludicrous, but also dangerous. Bit by bit, with rulings like this, the state gains greater power over family autonomy and, inevitably, over personal freedom.


As the implicit message sinks in that the state knows best and parents aren’t to be trusted, advocates for private schools and voucher programs should have no trouble finding new recruits.


Kathleen Parker can be reached at kparker@orlandosentinel.com or 407-420-5202.  Copyright © 2005 Orlando Sentinel

I’m so tired.  Stayed up most of the night trying to get some housework and laundry done.  I’ve a huge pile of stuff to go to the resale shop either tomorrow or Thursday.  Can’t wait to get that stuff out of my house!  For now, however, I am going to say GOODNIGHT!

You must see this movie . . .

I took my girl to see the movie “Dreamer” this afternoon.  Oh my goodness — what an incredible movie.  I have to tell you, I literally flinched when Sonya went down on the racetrack and cried off and on throughout the rest of the movie.  It is that moving from start to finish.  Some of the crying was sadness for the difficulties facing the family and some of it was pure joy at the determination of a little girl and a beautiful horse.  I think a bit of it too was for the initial similarities between this story and that of Ruffian, a horse truly born to run.  I can’t remember how old I was exactly, but probably around 12, when I watched on television what would be Ruffian’s last race.  When she went down it was an incredibly tragic day in horseracing.  From what I’ve read, the drive to run was so strong in Ruffian’s heart that she kept trying to run after her injury and even as the doctors were trying to save her leg.  Alas, it was not to be and the only merciful thing to do was to put her out of her misery.


Fortunately, “Dreamer” has a different ending.  From what I understand, it is based on a true story and I would like to do some research regarding the “real” story.  This world is so full of negativity that it’s a pleasure to see something so full of hope, joy, and determination show up on the movie screen.  I know my 9 year old girl just loved it!

Galveston, Greek Food and Weird Flying Machines

We were supposed to spend a relaxing day down in Galveston, attending the Greek Festival, enjoying all kinds of yummy nummy foods, listening to Greek music, and watching the Greek dancers break plates and pick small kitchen tables up at one corner using nothing but their teeth . . .


Oh, well.


It would take too long to tell you the whole story, but the gist of it is, one of my sibling-in-law’s just LOVES to be in control.  My father-in-law has been ill these last three weeks (in fact, it is truly a miracle the man is still alive — his appendix ruptured) and he has finally come home from the hospital.  This is a good thing, for sure, but he fell ill at exactly the same time the old wood floors in his 1940’s home were being ripped out and replaced.  Suffice it to say things have been pretty darned chaotic.  Instead of assessing what is truly a priority, taking care of that, and putting less important things on the back burner until a more appropriate time, my sibling-in-law pretty much orders everyone around in an effort to get it ALL DONE NOW.  So everyone ends up exhausted with nothing left to give. 


Over these last three weeks, my husband has gone to Galveston every weekend and taken several days off from work to help out at the house with the floor project or to spend the night at the hospital with his dad.  Keep in mind that my husband is a teacher on a school calendar, meaning he doesn’t get vacation time.  He gets regular school holidays and sick leave.  He’s a full-time employee.  His sibling works 2 – 3 days a week.  And after he knew his dad was going to be okay and he said he couldn’t come down unless it was an emergency . . . oh, boy, did the poop hit the fan!  You just wouldn’t believe the guilt trip that this person laid on him.  According to this person, he should jump up and drive the 50 miles one way to move a piece of furniture because, well, he just needs to “step up to the plate” — like he hasn’t already been doing that. 


Anyway, we stopped by so he could help move a couple of pieces of furniture and then when we started to leave — oh, the looks, the guilt.  We were asked “What are your plans for the rest of the day?” and “Do you think you’ll be coming back by later?”  We answered as evasively as we could and as we were getting in our truck, my husband said, “Oh, yeah, I’m sure I’ll be rushing back to that tonight . . . ”  The stress factor in the house is so high.  And no matter how much you give and give, it’s never enough.   And heaven forbid you should consider doing something FUN for a couple of hours . . .


Because our puppy is not capable of staying in her crate more than 3 or 4 hours yet, we couldn’t leave her at home.  We’d thought about leaving her at their house while we ran over to the festival for a short time, but it was so very weird and we didn’t want to hear how we’d “dumped our dog” on them so we took her with us.  Of course, we couldn’t take the puppy into the festival, so I went in and got plates to go and then we took them to the Seawall and ate at one of the picnic tables.  It turned out pretty nice inspite of the earlier unpleasantness, but I surely would have liked to seen the dancers and listen to the music.


Here are some pics from our day.  Seriously, the late afternoon/early evening turned out pretty good, all things considered.



Here my guy and gal are enjoying a delicious Greek repast of souvlaki (beef, onions, and peppers on a skewer, cooked over burning coals), dolmades (grape leaves stuffed with rice and spices), Pastitsio (baked macaroni with beef and bechamel sauce), tiropita (feta cheese filled puff), spanakopita (spinach and feta cheese puff), keftedes (spicy meatballs).  So incredibly good!



To finish off the above (and ensure our gastronomic misery from over-indulgence – but what a way to go!), on the left:  kourambiedes (somewhat like a sand tart, with almonds and powdered sugar) and on the right: baklava (thin fillo dough layered with butter, various chopped nuts and spices, topped with honey syrup . . .)


 


This was a pretty interesting thing to see go flying past as we ate.  It looked almost like a dune buggy with a hovercraft “fan” attached to the back . . . weird flying machine to be sure!


Here’s me, sporting that wind-blown look.  Eek!  Note the biker behind my right shoulder — the Lone Star Motorcycle Rally is also this weekend.  My girl started counting bikes on the way down (you should have seen the Harleys . . .) she got tired after tallying about 150 bikes.  Her dad tells us there will probably be around 75,000 bikes (or more) hit the island before the weekend is over.



Our guy and our Sweetie . . . poor little puppy.  At first we thought she was shivering because of the cool wind blowing off the Gulf.  Then we realized that her distress was probably more associated with the rumbling of the ground as Harley after Harley after Harley went cruising past our little picnic spot!  The noise was pretty incredible — it was not annoying, but insistent . . . kind of like the humming of a very large beehive somewhere beneath the asphalt road.



I am so in love with this kid.  I’m going to be 42 in January and it looks as though this is it for us.  But man, oh, man — if a mom’s only going to have one kid — I hit the jackpot!


 


 


 


 



This is a “bonus” pic — as we were walking toward the Greek Festival, I noticed this cat curled up in the crawlspace of a very forlorn looking old house.  This house is abandoned, one of many in the “Silk Stocking District” of old historic Galveston.  Kitty looks as though he’s waiting for someone who may never return . . .


Well, that’s it for now — until another time!

Be very afraid . . .

Just thought I’d give you a heads up that I will be tweaking the look of my site.  Probably won’t get it all done in one fell swoop, so if you stop by and things are less than aesthetic, be patient and check back again.  Much of this computer stuff is still a mystery to me, so it won’t be anything too complex.  I jsut think we need a little more color around here, so I’ll be playing with that.


Ciao!

Prayer Request for a Young Widow

If any of you have been paying attention to the news, I’m sure you heard about the pastor in Waco who was electrocuted in that freak accident during a baptismal service.  It’s such an incredibly small world . . . my sister told me earlier today that one of the girls she went to school with is his widow.  I remember this girl from years ago — seriously, she was probably in junior high the last time I saw her.  I’m guessing she’s probably around 30 now, because she’s a couple of years younger than my sister.  Anyway, she’s now a widow with a 5 year old and 3 year old twins to raise.  Bless her heart. 


When you’re praying, please keep Jennifer, her little children, and the rest of her family in prayer, too.


Thanks.

Titles . . . now if I could just think of one . . .

Actually, just wanted to take a minute to say “Thanks, God.”  Been a little stressed about $$$ and today I learned that two quotes I had out will become sales.  That helps immensely with my peace of mind!  I still have a few others out and am waiting to hear back on those.  I’ll keep you posted. 

Well, I’m doing a bit better about posting on a regular basis.  I had a melt-down earlier today, but I’m doing better now.  I feel pulled in all directions — homeschool, business, home responsibilities, finances.  I wish I juggled better.  I’ve used the word “better” three times already.  Goodness.  How’s that for a well-rounded vocabulary?


We got some schoolwork done earlier today.  Not as much as I’d like, but we did get some done.  I got most of our bills paid.  Still have a few sitting on my desk, but they’ll have to wait until some more $$$ comes in.  Business has been pretty steady lately, so I’m not too worried about it, although I’d be lying if I said that I wasn’t a little anxious.  My guy makes good money, but because of some credit card accounts we have, we are stretched pretty thin.  We don’t have the cards anymore (did you know you can run credit cards through a paper shredder?), and it’s just a matter of paying them off.  Beans and rice, rice and beans . . .   I have a measurement appointment tomorrow evening, and SIX next week.  So if those come through, it will be very good.


I can hear my puppy wimpering through the closed door.  We are giving crate training a second try.  We planned to crate train her when we first got her, but we had to evacuate due to the hurricane and the first night we were at my cousin’s, she cried all night and kept everyone awake.  So we got off track.  Then when we got back home, we hated to hear her cry and because the mosquitoes were so bad outside, we thought we’d paper-train her.  Most of the time she hit the paper, but she also had quite a few accidents.  We have hardwood floors and I really started getting worried that she was going to ruin them.  So we’re back to crate-training.  My sister promised me that if I can hang in there for a couple of weeks it will get better.  The puppy is not crying right now, so maybe she’s getting used to the idea of being in the crate at night.  She is so sweet, I just hope we can get her trained.  It’s difficult to enjoy a pet, no matter how sweet the pet may be, if you’re constantly having to clean up pee and poop.


Have any of you used Shutterfly for digital prints?  I have tons of digital photos that I need to get printed.  I tried Snapfish a year or so ago for regular film developing, and I guess it was okay.  Something about the prints seemed off, though.  I’m thinking about giving Shutterfly a try.  Would appreciate comments from any of you who know.



I’m gone for now — have to get some sleep so I can start fresh in the a.m.  It will be a busy week the next three days, but Saturday promises great fun — we’ll be going to the Greek Festival in Galveston.  A plate of the most delicious food, awesome Greek music and dancing.  We love attending this event every year and hate it when something prevents us from going (like last year).  Here’s my sister and girl enjoying yummy scrumptious Greek goodies a couple of years ago!   


On Sunday, we’ll be stopping in on the Lone Star Bike Rally, in Galveston, too.  The Christian Motorcyclists Association will be having a church service in the Strand area.  Last year my guy attended and said it was awesome, so he wants to go again this year.  I’m thinking I may go with him, too.   Catch ya’ later!

So, it’s about a quarter after midnight and I’m working on the web page for my business.  I’ve had this name reserved for two years and haven’t done diddly-squat with it because (a) I don’t know a darned thing about building web pages and (b) I’m the worst procrastinator there ever was.  (Well, maybe not the worst, but I’m probably up there on the list . . .)  Anyway, I had to renew my SBC Yellow Pages ad a few days ago and there’s nothing like telling them to list your web page address in your ad copy to motivate you to do something with the web page.  Ha! 


So I’ve been working on it so it will be half-way respectable when the new book comes out in November.  One of my competitors listed a web address in their ad a couple of years ago and I thought I’d check it out to see “what the competition was doing.”  Well, everytime I tried to check it out, it had one of those “Under Construction” labels up.  Yuck!  So I’m determined to have this in pretty good shape by November 15th.  It’s very basic, and meant for information only — no internet orders, please!  I can barely keep up with the appointments I have.  Check it out if you’d like: The Finishing Touch  Keep in mind, I’m still working on it.  I’ll probably have to upgrade a notch, as I don’t really have a “home” page.  I wanted a page for each of the three products we focus on:  blinds, shades, and shutters.  The basic package only contains three pages.  So I’ll probably upgrade in order to get one more page (the “Home” page) that focuses on The Finishing Touch — who we are, what our customer service philosophy is, how committed we are to high quality products and customer satisfaction.


All it takes is $$$$$!


I’d love to hear what you think, so far.  And if you notice any typos, please, please, please tell me.  I hate typos, but sometimes they even slip past me (anal-retentive, former legal secretary with a perfectionist streak) . . .


Later, mis amigos . . .


P.S. — That reminds me – my girl has been taking a mini-Spanish class these last few weeks.  We went for lunch after church today, to our favorite little Mexican restaurant.  Well, Missy just loves sopapillas and so when the waitress came around to see if we wanted anything else, my girl said perfectly “Yo quiero sopapillas, por favor.”


Heavens, I just love that child!