So my efforts at divorcing Facebook are proving to be more difficult than I originally anticipated. As much as I might despise certain aspects of The Borg, one thing you cannot argue: if you are involved in any kind of business or group effort, FB can’t be beat for getting the news out to large numbers of people quickly.
I fought with myself (as is often the case with addicts trying to kick a habit), and I will own it — I confess I peeked at the notifications on my account a few times since my last post. Not nearly as often as I usually do, but I did peek.
Then I saw a friend request from one of the main players at Baystar Group (the publishers of Image magazine, where I recently had an article published). I received a very nice letter from the president of the Alvin Historical Society regarding my article on the museum, and she also sent a copy to the editor of Image. My new FB friend at the publisher scanned the letter and posted it to FB. I’d be fibbing if I said that wasn’t a bit of an ego boost.
I learned that FB is one of the primary ways that the group communicates regarding the magazine, as well as promoting the magazine, the articles, the writers, photographers, etc. This set me thinking about the FB group that our church utilizes to spread the word regarding prayer requests, and the FB page that I use to post photos of window treatment projects I’ve completed.
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So I spent a good part of this morning, between sneezes (because, of course, I’m coming down with an allergy-inspired spring cold) trying to fine-tune FB to work for me, rather than me work for it. I unfollowed dozens and dozens of people and pages, while still remaining FB friends. The way I hope this works is that when I share a blog post, or something pertinent to my freelance writing, my window treatment business, or my church family, the right people will see it. And I hope that I will not be inundated with videos of fluffy puppies. political diatribes, and endless recipes.
As always, if you have something to say, please say it down there ▼▼▼▼▼ in the comments box, rather than responding on FB. I will be eternally grateful. 💗
I hope you’re still okay with toddler pictures a few times every week.
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You inspire me greatly with the efforts you’re putting forth to choose joy. I think you’re on the right path. It’s not a “site” or specific “app” that is the problem, but the power we give them. The hold we allow them to have over the our lives and the time we value. Not realizing the amount of time wasted until it is lost. Mine is Instagram. I’m constantly having to set boundaries for myself and practice diligence concerning that little app, but I won’t let myself get rid of it because I have business plans and it will come in handy.
You’ll find that balance. I believe in you. You’re amazing and know the value of your time.
I’m so proud of this feat you’ve decided to tackle!
I love you.
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I love you, too, my sweet girl! I cannot wait to see photos of your soon to be family of three! ❤️❤️❤️
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